“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” Unknown.
I received an interesting comment from a cyber friend recently. Those of you who know me, know that I love my dog. I adore her. Insufferably. I’m sure people get tired of hearing my Tasha stories, probably with good reason. Only the true dog (or cat, or rabbit or horse, or snake or…) lovers among you can understand.
I know Tasha’s not human. I know she’s “just” a dog. But she’s still part of my family. Her recent health issues have been very challenging for me on emotional, financial, and spiritual levels. And I’m a writer. It’s what I do. It’s how I process emotions and use them to (hopefully positively) influence my world.
In any case, things are finally looking up for Tasha and me. We ruled out lots of deadly diseases. We made it through hip replacement surgery. And although there’s still a long recovery ahead of her, it looks like she will be with me for hopefully several more years. To say I’m happy, if exhausted, would be an understatement.
I posted about that on Facebook.
First, let me say that I LOVE Facebook. I enjoy seeing photos of people’s kids, updates on their daily activities, inspirational sayings, and cute puppy pictures. I use it to ask for energy and to encourage others and give them support. So it was natural for me to share good news from a veterinary surgeon about my dog’s likely return to health.
The vast majority of people didn’t say anything about the post. The rest replied with encouragement.
One person, however, chose a different route. She chose to berate me, saying that I wrote more about my dog in that post (a few sentences) than most people write about their dying parents. She continued to write that I must be pretty darned lucky if I could write so much about a dog when others were suffering true hardships.
I considered replying, but I didn’t. I just let it go.
I regret that. So now, here is my reply. First, yes, I’m lucky. So very, very lucky. I know that. I have a wonderful life, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I don’t write about my father on Facebook because sadly, he died almost 13 years ago. My mother is healthy, as is my husband, thank God.
My dog is not.
I love this four-legged creature that has blessed me so much, to a fault. I know some people don’t understand that love, and I can live with that.
Why am I writing about this? The yoga sutras say we should always act with compassion—in actions, words, and thoughts. Today, I challenge all of you—myself too—to remember that in all of our communications—be they in person or on social media. We each have the power to make someone’s day brighter. Let’s use it.
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